I completely agree and feel your pain. I had a similar situation not long ago. Trying to get a group together for vog is harder than it is for hm crota. If youre a level 30 or above you should have no issue with vog. Ive been playong this game since launch and I remember when hard vog was not only completed, but easily completed with only 30s and 29s. Now I can have a full group of 32s and not know if we are gonna make it past the confluxes because most people cant stay alive through defending just the left and right conflux. Then if you do make it through that part you font know if anyone besides yourself can handle the relic. If you cant solo venus and mars and you are a 32 then you need to practice. This raids enemies max out at level 30! ThAt means you are two levels above them!