best headset

For all of he headsets everyone is listing below. You get Chat as well as in game audio correct? Also if you do, are you always having to change the output settings to get the sound from the headset back to the tv in order to watch Hulu, Netflix etc. I just don't want to have to change that all the time, as if I forget and the misses tries to stream and there is no sound she will ge frustrated cause she never tinkers with the PS3 settings. My current headset is only chat and I realized I get killed when playing at night is because I have no in game audio and I can't hear enemies coming or shooting me till I am already losing life. All this time I was always like "what the hell?" Thanks.