XboxOne Friends

Hi, I am a lady gamer, RecklessXplorer on XboxOne. The friends I play with regularly are guys. They are the best friends ever. It's the "friends" of my friends which I'm having trouble with lately. It's become pretty obvious some don't want the female's participation in the Raid. I have trouble with some of the jumping. God forbid if I die, but it's OK when they do. I'm not considered for certain tasks in the Raid. Sadly I want to do the raid with friends, but not with my friend's friends. The remarks being made by them, I can do without. I'm on Xbox for fun, not the crap. Anyways I have mic. I'm on a lot. I'm many things; silly, patient, easy going, helpful...rest assured the thing I'm not, is a jerk. Add me & I will add you back.