Look, there are two ways to respond to hate. The first is what you're doing right now, and letting it crush you. It's clear that you care what people think about you, and that's fine. However, there are people to care about and people not to. If all these people do is give you hate - don't let it beat you down, do way 2. Way 2 is absorbing the hate, instead of falling under it. You don't let it hurt you - you consume it so that it lets you grow as a person. You don't ignore the hate, you absorb it, and allow it to strengthen you. It has a second bonus too - it pisses off the haters when their hate doesn't upset you.