You have 2 32's -blam!-ing take a break. Get some balance in your life I don't think nightfall and raiding take that long to complete even with 3 characters and you're basically doing extra work on the game that can be best spent with your special someone. Destiny isn't important, the real people in your life are, get your head out of your ass before you lose her man. You want advice? Spend more time with your GF, and play when you can. Stop doing extra work on the game, you don't have to