How many units have you been in during your career? Do you know what getting "fenced in" means? Yes the military can be hard, but sometimes theres more to it than that. Ive known guys stationed in Benning 10+ years, non-negotiable. As in they tried to tranfer out. And couldnt. At that point, if you dont like your unit, the only options are to fail your piss test or bide your time and get your honorable. Hard lifestyles sometimes have nothing to do with it. And even if they do, theres a fine line between hard and stupid.