So my girlfriend gets pissed when I come home from work and play until I gotta go to work the next morning... So I don't sleep anymore at all, I really don't wanna miss out on any Loot, so I spend all my hours spare grinding Phogoth strike over and over... But I need advice she seems pretty pissed lately and acting as if I must choose between her and work or Destiny! It's pretty selfish of her IMO. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend or give up playing for a few months....
Please reply with some advice fellow Guardians!
Thanks
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simple solution. toss a coin, heads destiny, tails your gf
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At this point, it wouldn't make a difference. 'But if you want to let a pointless videogame ruin your social life, so be it.
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Or you could stop being a -blam!-ing nerd be a man and choose your gf.
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Grow up and find your balls. Once you've found them put em on her chin.
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Ask your RL friends (if any) or be an adult male and make a decision. If you're smart enough (meh...) you can manipulate the situation and get her involved in the game by a lot of different aspects. Phogoth strike over and over? Yikes.
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Your hunter is 31. Give her the hunter. Teach her the ways of the blade dance.
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Give her the controller and teach her how to play so you can sleep xD
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You have your priorities all messed up man. Grind a video game for hours for the off chance you might get a sexy exotic Or Spend time with your girl in the hope of getting a beej or something? I know what I'd be doing.... What about you? So - nightfall or raids first?
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Edited by Jagaban: 1/18/2015 12:08:35 PM#offtopic
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Better put that woman first son.
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if you're serious, put the controller down before you lose her and regret it, you dont realise what you have till its gone sometimes
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It's okay to play. But it's your girlfriend dude get off and spend time with her ( in the long run it's just a game ) if you think it's selfish for her to want to spend time with the person she loves how selfish are you to ignore her for a game that means nothing in real life.
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You should probably break up with her. Not because of Destiny but because since you started playing Destiny I've been shooting her loot cave with my unfriendly giant.
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Hey if the girl is making you choose now she will make you choose later with something else. Life is to short to waste it on people that try and change you!! You might want to manage your time a little better if you really like / love her but never give up on what you like to do. Example. My girl friend knows tuesday is reset day. Period. I will lock myself in my room and leave only for lunch, supper and beer. (Bathroom is attached to bedroom so win for me) But then I spend the other days with her, and only play destiny long enough to finish some bounties while she watches her drama shows on netflix.
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Never spend your time doing something that isn't exactly what you want to be doing
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Keeping playing man. If not playing is a sacrifice to you then she deserves someone better.
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If this is a serious post then you need to put down the controller and kiss your girlfriend dude Real life= more important than a game
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I don't normally like commenting in on others personal relationships. Tip tho. Try chilling out with on days like Sunday, Monday, Weds. You want to be on Destiny during the prime hours. Reset day and Xur day. You can fit most of the play week into those days. This is if you live together. Give her the two or three days during the week. The good Destiny days are yours to play. Idk tho its you and yours man
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Dude serious? You got someone that loves you. Spend time with her...wth man
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I more interesting in why you're grinding the Phogoth strike. Is he dropping the Mammoth Hide Cloak now?
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Wow . Dude give her some time. I was having the same problem and I decide to give my girl her time first . Trust everything goes of better when your girl is happy. Put your girl friend after all she's always going to have your back through thick an thin. Games are just game and is time to grow up
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It's all about balance , for every couple of strikes do something around the house & dedicate at least one day to her so you can hang out.
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A strange troll... Not quite a gold star troll in my book. No gold star for that shit today sir
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If you still want her then either stop altogether or talk to her about it so y'all can work out a schedule for couple time and game time. But either way your gonna need to cut down on game time period cause no sleep is gonna keep you from gaming anyway. I wouldn't want to raid with you if your dosing off on me and the team.
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Get her a copy and get her hooked on Destiny either that or break your addiction .
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I'm certain this is all real........ I bet none of it is made up..........