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Edited by brOwniiez: 1/18/2015 7:54:42 AM
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Break Up and Keep Playing or ... NEED ADVICE

So my girlfriend gets pissed when I come home from work and play until I gotta go to work the next morning... So I don't sleep anymore at all, I really don't wanna miss out on any Loot, so I spend all my hours spare grinding Phogoth strike over and over... But I need advice she seems pretty pissed lately and acting as if I must choose between her and work or Destiny! It's pretty selfish of her IMO. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend or give up playing for a few months.... Please reply with some advice fellow Guardians! Thanks

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  • I'd say stay, you can afford to lay off a video game, relationships are more worthwhile in the long run

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    • Stay with your gf. That is way more important. Just play an hour or so a day.

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    • well if u feel the need to ask if u should play a game or stay with ur gf, I think the answer is pretty clear.

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    • If that's the only main Troubles between you two right now then definitely choose her over destiny. And I don't think she would mind if you still play destiny just not nearly as much as you do now, maybe squeeze in an hour a day or a few hours when she isn't a round or is busy or sleeping or something else. But when you come home tomorrow just take her out on a date or something and enjoy yourselves and forget about destiny and then continue from there and just give her attention. If there are lots of other problems accumulating then you have to think about if there are other big issues to why you maybe should break up. There is doubt in many relationships and usually It will pass after a while, just make sure for yourself

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    • pussy is more important

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      • Edited by BoOtTyMoNsTa: 1/19/2015 2:43:02 AM
        If you have to seriously ponder breaking up with her for destiny then you probably should. I got crazy lucky with loot in the past month:hawkmoon icebreaker and gjallarhorn all in one week. But I was playing too much and not showing my gf enough attention or affection. Since then I have quit playing except for the Tuesday reset and early in the mornings before she wakes up and I have never been happier. She is much happier as well and "returns the favor" if you know what I'm saying. We live together and it's been a year this Friday. I had to face this decision as well and I came to the conclusion that if I tell this girl I love her than I owe her all of me that I can offer. If you're having a debate within yourself between a girl and destiny, and your seriously considering picking destiny, then do it, if she loves you she will either deal with it or just move on and you can both try to be happy.

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      • The fact that you are even considering to keep playing makes you a moron. Under no circumstances is any game (especially the pile of shit that is destiny) worth affecting your real life. Grow up dude...

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        • I had an answer but I phogoth it

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          • *News Flash* the gf is imaginary, you have been all trolled the last 25/threads this guy has posted this weekend.

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          • think about this... what's more important a videogame or a girlfriend

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          • Pay attention to your girlfriend. Destiny is fleeting. Love is forever. #themoreyouknow

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            • I'd give up my three ghorns to get back with my ex. [spoiler]jk[/spoiler]

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            • How long have yall been dating? Does she usually give you ultimatums?

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            • How big are her tits?

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              • Break up for sure

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              • All because this fool was harassin' them Tryin' to play the boy like he's saccharin' But ain't nuttin' sweet 'bout how I hold my gun I got 99 problems B and a bitch ain't one, hit me

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              • Stop posting threads and just end you're imaginary girlfriend already!

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              • Playing that much will literally kill you, don't you read the news?

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              • You are playing too much at once, dude. If your girlfriend has put up with you this long, she's likely a keeper. 3 hours a day is good. Of she doesn't like you doing it at night, get up early in the morning.

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              • Maybe balance your time a bit better, spend time with her. But I also don't think a girlfriend that cares for you and wants you to have fun would tell someone to not do what brings them joy. At that point it would make me think she's in it for the sake of a relationship and not because she truly cares for you.

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              • Edited by Vendicta: 1/19/2015 2:17:46 AM
                gf needs to understand that its a temp thing, its not like it will last for months. After you hit 31 or 32, you get bored real quick and if she is that needy then tell her to gtfo !

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              • Come home and spend some time with her, clean that rim, put nyquil in her drink and wait.

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              • Edited by RL CRYPTARCH : 1/18/2015 4:33:02 PM
                I say I should cut out your tongue for being a little bitch , stfu get your dick outta your ass put her in her place. Don't listen to these Jew -blam!- boys Strip clubs Brothels Russian brides Las Vegas New Orleans If you haven't experienced atlease 3 of those you shouldn't be playing mom and dad shut her ass up and play destiny

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              • #bandsthatmakeherdance

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              • Edited by krazykid636: 1/19/2015 2:15:49 AM
                Dude put destiny down remember it's only a game it's gonna be there tomorrow and the next day n the day after dat. You won't be missing out for not playing a couple of days or a week. If yu prioritize destiny before anything else then yu sure don't love pussy

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              • Dude.. take a break, loot is still going to be there the next day. You shouldn't lose sleep, a job or a GF over Destiny.

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