When I first started playing Destiny (admittedly wayyy too much), my wife got irritated pretty often. I noticed after a while that she would throw "that game" in my face every time we argued, claiming I care about xbox more than family. This bothered me, so I sat down with her and tried to resolve it so that things weren't so tense. She claimed that as long as we spent time together (I know, ew, right?) for at least a couple hours every day, what we do after that is whatever. I was obviously skeptical..you know..because women.. but, basically what has ended up happening is that every day after work, we sit and talk for a bit, I help her cook dinner, we clean up for a bit and talk some more, then go our separate ways until pretty much bed time. She plays on her phone and computer for most of the night, and I play Destiny. On my days off, we make make some sort of plans, like dinner, lunch, a movie, etc. Its not perfect every day, but it works. We hardly ever argue about video games anymore. I didn't even catch flak on TDB release day for playing for about 12 total hours. I can relate to the problems experienced by a lot of the guys posting here, but I got lucky and got an actually rational wife.