The problem with OP is that your making generalizations of the gaming community and saying all girls and guys who play games are like that. I have several girls on my friends list and both myself and my friends all treat them just like a normal guy while it is only natural to give them more a little attention in a conversation since statistically girls are the minority in gaming and that's something that's hard to ignore it doesn't mean we constantly harass and hit on them. But that's relative to real life in some surcumstances.