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Edited by TheSixthRanger: 1/11/2015 12:28:04 AM
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When playing with female players

I find it very fun and exciting when playing with female players. I know, what guy doesn't right? The thing is that, in my personal experience, when playing with my buddies, or my boys, we create a certain atmosphere. When a female player comes in the picture, most of us don't know how to react to the situation. I personally really don't like cursing, or using bad language with any girl. It makes me feel like I have no class when I do, but yet I find it hilarious when guys try to stand out in the party by cussing, and being extra dramatic when a girl is in the game. Most of us men might know how to speak with women outside of gaming, but when it comes to chatting with them online, or in a party chat inside the gaming world, we seem to not be able to handle it. I still haven't found the solution to this problem, but maybe posting something on the subject may get us a step closer to finding this solution. [b]The problem[/b] Female players complain on how male players harass, annoy, and bug the hell out of them as soon as they find out that they're a girl. Sending mass 'friend requests', 'messages', and 'party invites' do not make female players intrigued to play with us. Overall most men would love to play games with female players every other night if they could. But honestly, most male players simply do not know how to respond to the female players who we find playing our favorite game. [b]Why are guys so thirsty online?[/b] I do have female gamers which who i play with occasionally, yet I wish I had more female players to play with. When playing with girl gamers, conversations take different turns, and different topics come up, oppose to when playing with your buddies. This is one of the reasons why male players are so excited to have a female player in their friends list. Perhaps some guys play more games than socialize outside of their rooms. Whether this is true or not, what guy doesn't dream of a hot, sexy girl who enjoys the same things as we do? So what better place to find this sexy woman over a match online? [b]The truth[/b] The truth is simple. The world isn't a fairytale, so if you are hoping to find this perfect partner over a match most likely wont happen. Yet I don't see a reason to not send a friend request to a female player, nor I find a reason for any girl to get upset. Why is it still a surprise when female players get requested by guys? We don't know, but hopefully times will change to where gamers overall become more friendly, and the number of females in the gaming world are equal to those for males. [b]Any suggestions?[/b] The only clue to the solution for this problem is more female players. Guys still dominate the numbers game in the world of gaming, so perhaps by equaling the number of female players, this might quench the thirst for most of these guys. Thank you for taking the time and reading this, this is my very first post. If you enjoyed it please leave a comment, and for any suggestions that could help find the solution to this problem, feel free to leave your comments here as well. Take care ladies, and gentlemen. have a great weekend.

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  • I don't give a -blam!- so long as you can carry the relic should the need arise.

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  • Girls expect to be treated the same till the bill comes around ..... i would think its sweet of a girl to pay for my meal or movie ticket but i doubt that would happen. Not trying to sound mean just saying

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    • >op sucks on chads

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    • The problem is years of guys being a- holes has made it so girls can really play anything you don't really see a girl in cod in game chat because guys just give them problems Now they get mad because they think we're trying to pull something Myself also enjoys playing games with them some people even call me a "white night " I don't care btw Guys online act like girls are some kind of alien And some super special person The truth is they not dont get me wrong I know to treat a lady right but they just people like us I would love to play games with more

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      • Usually when I play with a girl gamer, I crouch down in front of her and keep punching and shooting her guardian vagina. Is this a bad thing to do?

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        • I have yet to have any problems. One or two request when I talk in chat. But usually no response.

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        • I typically talk more when there are females simply because females are often more interesting to talk to. But for the most part, I tend to treat both genders equally.

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          • Now that I think about it, you just wanted to get as many girls as possible on your friends list.

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            • Edited by Onion Beetle fan: 1/12/2015 11:16:47 PM
              As a guy gamer, I disagree with all of your irrelephant points you made. That and women needs to stop talking about their bodily functions, -blam!- that!

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              • Who. The -blam!-. [b]CARES.[/b]

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                • Is this the new cringe thread?

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                • I'm a girl, and I sometimes play with dudes. What I recognized was definitely that they behave so different around me. I mean, it's not bad as long as they stay who they are, but sometimes I really wish they'd talk with me as they talk with their buddies.

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                  • Very interesting post. Rummaging out of boredom and this was one of the first to pop up. In any case, every female gamers' experience is different. The most I can say (and this is speaking from my personal experience) is to be upfront and yourself. It's true, some guys do try to act out and different; but in general it is all gamers' job (of all varieties) to try and make gaming a pleasant experience. So in point, just throw out everything that makes us different and keep what makes us the same: people who enjoy playing video games. Be upfront and honest. I know that sentiment gets lost considering you're behind a screen and no one knows who you are and what you look like, but it's a value I hope people still have. Thanks for the post. Hopefully you get some answers. My inbox is always open to those who want healthy debates and discussions.

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                    • Gamers being more friendly ! You have more chance of getting a Vex Mythoclast from crucible

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                      • Never have.

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                      • Edited by huskly90: 1/12/2015 4:36:51 AM
                        Pretend they are in there underwear.... Wait never mind that would just make it more awkward. It's what most people tell you to do when you are nervous but never seems to work.

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                      • As a female player I've always felt to intimidated to try playin with others I don't know in real life. This post makes me wanna try but when ever I played with guys in the past they always told me how bad I am at the game (given I know I'm not the most coordinated game player). All that to say this: this post makes me wanna actually try playing with people I don't know haha Thanks

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                        • Lol I gotta deal with guys when I'm playn strikes or just on these forums! Lol tend not to give a fuq! If they wanna be thirsty then let them, but y'all ain't playing with me lol xD

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                          • Edited by Darude: 1/12/2015 9:40:42 AM
                            There is a way I got all the ladies: I was with my new raid group/clan I purposely spoke like a girl so then they would think that I actually am a girl. Then I acted like they were making me uncomfortable Then the leader sent me an apology and all the other girls in the clan Instead, they friend requested me and I got all the ladies Bruh

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                            • As a girl gamer, I have made one or two buddies over xbox 360 that were the opposite sex. Others on the other hand would try to show off, or send me request to do VOG 10 times in one day, and im not even high enough to do so. But the solution to my problem is just play with my younger brother over Destiny and help him level up. 💁

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                              • I quit wearing my mic and headset and I have everyone muted by default on my Xbox 360. I'm sure there are plenty of female players on Live, I just don't know it.

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                              • I play with a few girls, and they are treated just like the guys fom our clan. They are all good at Destiny, better than most randoms, so if we need someone and they are online, they will get a msg. Just like if a guys is online. I pick who i msg first based on skill first, and if i like them.

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                                • I rarely play with female gamers online. If I am I don't usually know it lol they tend to hide behind gamer tags to avoid the thirsty guys that are in abundance. I'm on Xbox1 if anyone wants to play though. Been running solo too much lately. GeeUnitV2

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                                  • When I play with guy gamers I could care less! Why should it matter? Guys are gonna be thirsty I can't stop that but some dudes can be cool. But as soon is they bring up that famous line "soooo000ooOo....do you have a bf?" I'm out lol

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                                    • Some men are very nice there's only a few who I played with who were rude or very disrespectful

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                                      • You're the White Knight that rules over all the other White Knights.

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