lol, the longer you play this game, the more you'll become on of them so in the meantime, just embrace it. You want to play the strike without other players, go to the strike on the planets and select those and up the difficulties or play with friends. You can't tell people how to play the game as long as they're playing it...you're not Bungie :p AFK during a strike however to leech is, however, not playing the game as designed and should be reported.