I had my fair share of bullying on here if that is what you mean.

While that is unfortunate, I'd guess the majority of the player population have had negative experiences/been bullied. Just the nature of the internet, anonymity, and interacting with established social groups (friends). Don't fall into the victim mentality, people being rude are the jerks, its very rarely anything to do with the person being targeted, and its almost definitely nothing to do with your condition. Its the internet, don't take anything personally, everyone has their own issues to deal with, and the people that are jerks to you are jerks to everyone else as well.

Yeah I know man but still thanks for the words, I was so curious what people thought about this.

You'll find extreme views from both sides (probably more negative on this site). Best advice keep it to yourself so people don't have an excuse, generally on a raid I'll talk 3-4 times. I'll say hi at the start and I'll pipe up with advice is people don't know what else to do. If you need a social outlet, people to talk to, Destiny is not a good idea, especially not during the raid where 1/6 people is an elitist jerk that will start slagging off everyone when the run starts to go wrong.