I've been very blessed to be able to run with an extremely solid group of people who run the hard at least 10-15x a week. Last night, we did the hard in under 45 minutes with only 2 wipes. Once for the oracles and once during the conflux. But I feel the pain of how difficult it is to do the raid. I didn't start doing any raid or nightfall until only 4 weeks ago or so. But being able to learn from friends has made this game much more enjoyable than playing "solo".