Although its frustrating for you, this is how the raid was supposed to be: for legitimate, well organized groups. Its not supposed to be easy peasy loot. Back in vanilla WoW, you would keep attempting a boss for hours, maybe not even down him that night only to try him again the next night. It took perseverance. I could care less if you are a "casual" if that is what people are calling each other these days, but this is by design. Many people new to MMO mechanics don't understand the logic behind this, but the point is good loot for good players. I think they kind of flubbed that with VoG because of their flaws in the raid design (all of the cheeses), but I'm hoping Crota will actually be challenging because exotic loot is supposed to be exotic, not 80% of people walking around with a raid weapon.