As someone who loathes pvp i can relate.Luckily i have a overly energetic nephew that enjoys pvp so i let him play.depending on which weapons you use sometimes you have to use crucible marks for a piece of gear luckily the hand cannon boots for hunter are dead orbit so the 65 marks wasnt bad but if i needed crucible rep that would of sucked.I also keep forgetting to unequip my freaking faction cape so i lose out on crucible rep.I dont bother with the raid and seriously have most of the exotic bounties just rotting on various characters all stuck on the pvp portion.I have come to terms that i wont get that super smooth fatebringer or that cool cape on the crucible vendor. That being said i still honestly enjoy playing which says alot im a mmorpger i know grind and i have had to make the transition from solo player to pvper to raider many times in mmo_s i guess if you want it bad enough youll make the transition.The only thing i worry about is how the new weapons come into play with the expansion if there all only from the new raid versus various vendors.