I don't have any problem with: "don't expect a female avatar to be a female, and don't expect a male character to be a male." Because, your totally right! I'm a girl, right...and I did my first character female, my second male. Your also correct, this ain't a dating site, GOD who would think that. So, where I think its "kinda wrong" its to lie about your gender if asked. Although, I don't mind, but sometimes its nice to know there real girls out there.