You cannot sit and wait for life to come to you. Do you know how long I would have had to wait to meet the girl I love if I just sat around? Forever, I wouldn't know her. There are times in every mans life where you have to set aside your fears and do what you know needs to be done. I stood at my first girlfriends house not long ago in the rain (Oregon sucks) holding flowers and a note I wrote her and told her how much I cared about her. BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE. Had I sat around waiting for her to love me, I would have been waiting possible forever. Get out there. Show them why you're better than anyone else