[quote]So you expect to eventually find your future wife by sleeping with people until you find them?[/quote] In my post I stated that marriage is not for me. Thus one might deduce that I am not looking for a wife. [quote]Your right: sex is an important part of relationships.[/quote] Tell me something I don't know. [quote]But on what level of relationship should it be introduced?[/quote] Whenever both parties feel comfortable. If that's the first date then fine. If they want to wait till marriage that's also fine. You and I have no right to impose our ideas about sex on other people, so this is a loaded and pointless question. [quote]Marriage. To vow to love one person, then demonstrate that physically emotionally and verbally is a solid foundation. If you sleep around, then vow to remain with one person forever, how can they believe you when your past says the opposite?[/quote] Your posts lead me to think you believe that once someone is an "adulterer" then they will always be an "adulterer". If that is the case, then you are simply wrong. Believe it or not, people can change. But I digress... To answer your question: [b]Love[/b]. If they can't believe you about something as important as that, then they aren't the right person for you and you shouldn't marry them.