Did you learn that in Dating 101? If I wanted relationship advice I definitely wouldn't get it from the people on here. Sex is an important part of relationships. Knowing one another includes knowing one another sexually. Plus, I'm in my early 20s. No way am I looking to date someone seriously. I know what kind of person I want and I know what kind of person I am. But I'm also young and not weighed down be ye olde ball and chain, and intend to keep my personal freedom as long as possible. Marriage is great for those people who want to get married. But I don't. I know how to have good relationships. I've just been -blam!-ed over too many times for caring about people who didn't give a shit about me and I'm done the whole relationship thing for a while. Besides, I'd much rather have casual sex with a couple girls every so often then have to deal with an annoying, jealous girlfriend with daddy issues all the damn time.