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Edited by Juan Martinez:
6/26/2014 3:12:18 PM
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Relationship help. (Updated again)
Yeah I'm horrible, I made a relationship thread, yattayatta. So, down to business. I've known this grill for a really long time. For the past three years or so, we've been really good friends. Despite what everyone seemed to say, I never had a crush on her until very recently. I don't think she likes me back but I can't be completely sure. What do I do? My biggest fear is ruining our friendship. Haaaaalp!
inb4 stick it in her pooper
inb4 toast/envelope
Edit: So my situation is much worse now. My other good friend, for the purposes of this she will be known as #2, is this grill # 1's best friend. # 2 knows I like # 1 and she doesn't want it to happen because she doesn't want to be a third wheel. Now I don't wanna -blam!- up my friendship with her. Wat do
inb4 Code Name Kid's Next Door
So in case you haven't realized by now, I've never had a grillfriend before and I'm not exactly an expert on it (hence me making this thread). So I'm starting to think I might not actually like this person. I mean, (as cliche as it sounds) I can't get her out of my head. But on the flip side, I can't imagine myself kissing or hugging or doing... stuff with this person. Do I like her? Help Flood!
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1 ReplyBeen there, done that, shrank the T-shirt in the dryer. Sometimes the crush you start feeling is due to how comfortable you are around the person, the fact that they're the gender you're attracted to, and they have qualities you'd like in a partner. Think about it, lasting relationships usually involve being friends with the other person. Thus, you tend to look for qualities your friends have when dating, so this sort of thing happens quite often. It sucks, hardcore, but sometimes there's nothing you can do other than to just try to accept the feelings, and not act on them. If you're comfortable enough with the person, you can always tell them, and trust that they'll let you down easy (thus helping you get over the feelings via closure). That can easily backfire and ruin a friendship, so don't try that unless you're sure how they'll react.
