I like to party actually. I am just not willing to go to such stupid lengths as those. Is there a problem? Motherly figure? lolwut. Why are you upset? I guess we see it differently. I am just really anti smoking whether drunk or not.

If it's fun, it's fun. Sounds to me like you were being a killjoy at that party. Sure people can get too drunk and end up being ill, and that's happened at more parties than I care to remember. Hell, even on nights out it happens. But the need to make a square post about it on BNet? Really dude? If you're disappointed in your friends' behaviour then just don't go partying with them, because if it happened once, chances are it'll happen again. And like I said, I'm hugely anti-smoking. I hate it beyond reason, but that hasn't stopped me from actually trying it. But I've only tried it (and hated it) when drunk. Cigars are a little different because you don't inhale, but it's still bad. Also, the fact that you think that's a wild party makes me think you really have no idea what the term means. Try re-reading your original post with the knowledge that the "wild" nights I've been to have involved people climbing onto roofs, beer bongs three metres long, hanging out of windows and general craziness. That's a wild party. Not a few girls getting drunk and kissing each other and/or throwing up.

Killjoy? lolwhat? Okay so basically you are telling me not to go to anymore uni parties because of one person? I can't just force her out lol. I am more of a smoking hater since I never tried once even while drunk. You tried a few so you really don't have any room to talk to someone who has never tried a cigarette and never will. Beer bongs are disgusting and I am glad we did not have that kind of shit going around. Just me? No. I am pretty sure mostly everyone was saying it was pretty wild and a lot of shit was unexpected. Why the -blam!- would we be climbing onto roofs of an apartment? I don't think anybody is dumb enough to try that. I stayed really long and trust me it was a huge mess for a small party (if you want to call it that) If I really were a killjoy people would tell me to get out. Oh and lastly: I know these people since September. Some are even first years. This was more wild than our average party. In Feb we are renting a place for a few nights and it will be more wild than this one for sure. I wont let it be a turn off for me even when I know shit is bound to go down again. I just don't like it when my friends desire to be taken by cigarettes or just let themselves be exploited. It just kind of shocked me to see them like that if anything. You would know more if you actually knew me. This girl has a boyfriend and her "friend" that she was kissing and going down on could have became a mess if nobody didn't say anything about it. Do you think I wanted my friend to be taken away by someone she barely knows? Just because you are drunk doesn't mean you go around kissing people while transferring multiple germs.