Yes In this situation I can. If this does not apply to you then you ignore it an move on, but in this situation you can focus on one gender and say that they are more likely do be doing the creeping. This is not about race or treating everyone fairly, you're trying to be MR. PC and that's not going to work in this situation. I can make the same dirty sex joke that I say in a group of guys with a group of girls. That's not right. But you are saying that it's ok to make that same dirty sex joke because I must treat everyone with respect. You must be a creeper because only a creeper could defend creepers like you are doing right now.