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10/11/2013 4:22:40 AM
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So there's this girl... (you know where this is going)

She works at the community library. I've had her check out my books before. And I've [i]checked her out a couple times[/i] as she walked around the library. Two days ago I grew the balls to actually say something to her. I asked if she had a record of my recent check outs so that I knew which issue of the walking dead I was on...She said no, then we chatted a little about that. Then I asked her name, checked out my books, said bye, then left. Today I went in again, and before I even had a chance to say hi, she said hi to me first. Then when I checked out my books, we talked about the walking dead again. TLDR: Girl at library said hi to me first, does she like me? Should I ask her out?

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  • Edited by Bolt: 10/11/2013 4:36:16 AM
    Here's a tip from someone who still has empathy-pain from watching this happen to female coworkers; don't think that just because a girl's being nice to you when she's working that she's flirting with you; it's basically her job. That said, a community library sounds less intense than most of the places I would apply this to. While I would still say that asking her out when she's working is a bad idea, perhaps you could turn your next conversation towards more casual topics and hope for the best. It would really be best if you could find a way to meet her outside of work though (that doesn't involve stalking).

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