I always will, despite my own issues I've never been inclined to lets say give up to keep it gentle. If a dr a Councillor or a phsycologist doesn't have the answer I will just endeavour to find one myself. To the point where due to financial circumstances after being recommended C,A,T therapy ( cognitive analytical therapy) i wasn't able to pay for the amount of sessions I was recommended. So I simply looked up courses for that type of therapy, looked into what each module was asking you to do to complete the course and just did it myself outside of a tutored environment. Luckily I have a close friend who has a masters degree in physiology so I asked her to "grade my work" as though it was a student of hers and if I were to attend such a course I would have passed so I know im safe to practice what I've taught myself. Thats just me in a nutshell.