I don't have anything to really give. But here is something that I've been giving to my family for the past year: [spoiler]I changed a year ago, and now I don't get mad. I always say thanks (habit), I always think about the little things, I cleaned my family's basement, and I always spent time with each, and one of my family members. It's exhausting, yes, but my family gave me something that I could never have from any other family.[/spoiler]