According to the game API, you have multiple deleted characters on your account. You also have cross save enabled, with your XBOX account as the primary set. It may be possible that your account was compromised. I would strongly urge that you change your password on both of your accounts and enable 2 factor authentication. Unfortunately, Bungie does not restore lost or deleted characters for any reason. Deleting characters requires you to hold a button for several seconds and can only be done in-game. [quote]Whether due to accidental deletion or unauthorized account access, Bungie does not recover manually deleted characters or items, and does not replace in-game items that are lost or dismantled. Bungie does not provide the following services: * Restoration of deleted characters [/quote] [url=https://www.bungie.net/en/Help/Article/12211]More information[/url]

But I was forcefully kicked off of destiny two then loaded into a disaster

You most likely received a WEASEL error code when it occurred. If you have Cross Save enabled, that means that someone booted you out of your session and started deleting your characters, which is I urge you to change your passwords and set up two factor authentication. However, as I mentioned, Bungie does not restore deleted items or characters for any reason.

Well do you have instructions on how to disable crossave? Because I was hacked and got my account back recently with cross save enabled

You need the account information of all accounts that are associated with your Cross Save in order to disable cross save. [quote] Disabling Cross Save Cross Save is intended to be a one-time action, but we realize there may be cases in which you want to visit the characters you left behind. Once Cross Save has been disabled, you will have access to your original characters on each platform. There is a 90-day wait to re-enable the feature. This policy exists to discourage activity like account recoveries by other players. For those interested in removing Cross Save from their account, [url=http://www.bungie.net/crosssave]click here[/url] and click the “View Setup” button. On the next page, players will be shown their Cross Save setup. To deactivate Cross Save, click the “Deactivate Cross Save” button located at the bottom of the page. Players must authenticate all accounts before they can deactivate Cross Save. PLEASE NOTE If players disable their Cross Save for any reason they will have to wait out the 90-day lockout before they can enable Cross Save again. There are no exceptions to this policy. Players who purchase Silver cannot disable Cross Save until 90 days after the Silver was purchased. [/quote] [url=https://www.bungie.net/en/Help/Troubleshoot?oid=48099]Source article[/url]

No the thing is I got hacked and it wasn’t me who enabled it, but whoever hacked me did that

Bungie cannot remove any accounts from your profile as they do not store those credentials. That is treated as unauthorized access. Accounts have to authenticate every time they log into the site and set up procedures such as Cross Save or PC migration tools.