They are extremely busy. Do you think games should be designed for people that have 5 hours a week to game? There is no live service games those friends of yours could excel at. That statement didn't define no lifers. Luckily I play with the wife but even if I didn't I'd have time to keep up. How long do you spend at the gym and how long does yard work take? I own my house and have that to take care of to. I manage around 21 hours of game time a week, sometimes more. Oh my kids are grown but I'm raising my toddler grandchild.