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7/8/2018 2:41:55 AM
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All for people being able to do what they want to themselves, however having pride in your sexual or gender preferences is very stupid in my opinion. It's not an accomplishment, simply a life choice.
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It’s not a choice to want to be like this, you may not ever understand as you aren’t going through gender dysphoria. But I didn’t wake up this morning and just want to be female, it is something I have always known I should have been since my first memory that I can remember. I would never wish this on my worst enemy, it is on my mind every second of every hour of every day. It consumes me and pushes me to get on with my life and do something with it. It is the only thing that I need to do in my life to make me happy. I can’t explain it, but it is certainly not a choice to want to be like this, believe me it would be a lot easier if I could be happy as I am.
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So, if it's an instinct rather than a choice, what's the cause for pride, should I be prideful in my ability to bathe, or walk?
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Edited by DarthBra-: 7/8/2018 3:16:51 AMIt is Pride day today hence the reason for posting. Pride day 2018. But apart from anything else sure yes I have pride in myself for having the guts to be me. It’s something that I can never take for granted and yes I’m proud of the fact that I have achieved it when a large percentage of the population isn’t behind me. Pride for walking no rolf, pride for the fact I can be myself hell yes ;)
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You see pride, I see nothing but arrogance.
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Ha ha that’s funny that’s exactly what I see in your post ;)
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Me calling out prideful arrogance is arrogant?
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No read the text wall stay focused here, you saying you see nothing but arrogance is arrogant
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I see nothing but someone who seeks approval, and reacts poorly when they fail to receive it. You LGBT folks all seem the same to me. Y'all preach nothing but acceptance, but y'all hate anyone that disagrees with you or calls you out on your crap.
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Edited by DarthBra-: 7/8/2018 4:06:36 AMNo I do not need your acceptance you think pretty big of yourself and your opinion if you think I do lmao. As for anything else of course you are entitled to your own opinion but if your opinion is toxic why should I care ? Rofl
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Nope, my acceptance isn't what you crave, my word doesn't mean squat to most folks. You seek acceptance from a greater hole of society, because that's how one determines one's self. Without society, there is no self. My thoughts and emotions don't matter to terribly much. I'm simply stating that hubris a path to destruction.
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Edited by DarthBra-: 7/8/2018 4:29:14 AMTo be honest not sure how best to say this, but I have been alone all my life, afraid to come out afraid to be me. When I was deciding on coming out I completely understood that I may lose all my friends and any future friends. But this did not concern me, if it did I would never have come out, I would have stayed hidden just so I could be accepted by society as a whole. I really am strong enough that I don’t need anyone in my life. I’m 39 and I have been independent all my life and come to realise the only person you can rely on in life is yourself. I don’t hold anyone up on a pedestal I don’t need anyone to support me to be me. I would be me and alone for the rest of my life and be completely fine with that if I had too, just so long as I was me and happy. So no I absolutely do not seek any acceptance from society I couldn’t care less what people think about me, if I did I would have never faced my fears to live as me ;) Hell I would never have posted this post up on a forum site rofl for the whole world to see and judge me.
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I can respect that. You see you coming out as a point of strength where in reality it's more of the wolf come out of sheep's skin. You simply got to the point you should've been at to start with correct? Also a 39 year old browses a bungie forum at 12:30 on a Saturday night. Course I reckon that doesn't say much for a 20 year old with nothing better to do.
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Ha in a round about sort of way however I would argue that it’s more the sheep coming out of the wolf’s clothing because had I done nothing about myself I would likely be dead by now or so full of anger and hate that I may have gone down a path I may not have come back from. That said I like it better the way you said it so I agree. As for the time I’m surfing the forum I’m from the UK so it’s worse it’s 5.37am and I’m off to work in one hour !! Thank you for the discussion it has been good to talk with you ;) x.
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You too
