The only answer you will get will be from users defending Bungie and telling you "you're doing it wrong". I do not think they intend to fix the problem, since some users have commented that it is here from the beginning. In my opinion, you have two options: 1. Switch to another internet provider (and pray that the new router is not problematic with Bungie's servers) 2. Leave the game. There are many other titles to play and they will not give you problems. I have personally opted for the second option.