it's a start. so you're observations are more reliable than that of those that specialise in such subjects?..interesting.. - not enough it seems. go deep enough, and there's no such thing as selflessness. society just accepts certain things as "selfless" but it's always benificial to the "selfless" even if its just a warm fuzzy feeling. - and did I say was miserable? nope. if you cant handle it, then don't think about it or reply. ignorance is bliss after all. enjoy.