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I know you probably hear this all the time, but do you think it's real? Is there such thing as love at first sight?
I do believe in [i]lust[/i] at first sight. But not love. Love is formed, developed over time and not something you "find" or "see" in someone.
You might find someone attractive as soon as you see him/her. But I don't think you can immediately fall in love with someone like that. If you do, it probably isn't real love.
Or maybe I'm wrong. What does #offtopic think?
[spoiler]Just a thought before I head to bed ^-^[/spoiler]
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No. To love someone, you would need to get to know them deeply. Which takes time. If two people fall for each other at first sight, their relationship will most likely fail.