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I know you probably hear this all the time, but do you think it's real? Is there such thing as love at first sight?
I do believe in [i]lust[/i] at first sight. But not love. Love is formed, developed over time and not something you "find" or "see" in someone.
You might find someone attractive as soon as you see him/her. But I don't think you can immediately fall in love with someone like that. If you do, it probably isn't real love.
Or maybe I'm wrong. What does #offtopic think?
[spoiler]Just a thought before I head to bed ^-^[/spoiler]
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See I never used to and I'm not sure that this even counts tbh but I met a lad on destiny, we started as friends so we only messaged on the playstation then we decided to swap numbers, pictures sent etc good looking lad but wasn't anything magical, just friends, there wasn't lust or anything and then I saw him for the first time on Skype and that was it, it was like an overwhelming amount of love for this person and he's now said it was mutual. Still yet to meet properly so that could change but that's the first time in my life I've ever felt instant love for someone.