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I know you probably hear this all the time, but do you think it's real? Is there such thing as love at first sight?
I do believe in [i]lust[/i] at first sight. But not love. Love is formed, developed over time and not something you "find" or "see" in someone.
You might find someone attractive as soon as you see him/her. But I don't think you can immediately fall in love with someone like that. If you do, it probably isn't real love.
Or maybe I'm wrong. What does #offtopic think?
[spoiler]Just a thought before I head to bed ^-^[/spoiler]
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You're always told there's always another person waiting for you, and that you'll find your soul mate at some point. Many people are told this. But many people aren't, and it's those same people that get told otherwise. There's no "love at first sight." It's "love if you're lucky." And in a world of 7 billion people, at the same time that's totally -blam!-ed up (assuming most even [i]want[/i] a partner), it's a good thing. Which is the blunt, ironic truth.