They're fine only because both systems have their own exclusives. I'd rather exclusives didn't exist at all, but that's not gonna happen. Xbone for example got Rise of the Tomb Raider a whole year before PS4 (I've got it on PC though). Xbone also gets 30 day exclusivity on the Division DLCs. So both sides have their respective exclusives. If you cared so much about Destiny exclusives in particular, then you should have gotten a PS4 instead.