Nah, everybody lies, and one doesn't lie any more or less than the other. That's a fact. We all do it. As for men falling in love with looks, it's more like men are more visually oriented. I've dated plenty of chicks who were absolutely beautiful, but I didn't love them. In fact, I often found that some of the prettiest ones had attitudes or personalities that I could never stay with for long. Some were very spoiled, inconsiderate, selfish, or materialistic. It seemed as if some were so use to having been given a pass - perhaps because they were so pretty - that they never tried very hard or never really developed a great personality. Nevertheless, I do agree that men are more 'visual.' I wouldn't say that women fall in love with words, either. If this were true, then they might fall in love with desperate dudes or white knights all the time, but they don't. Women are more complicated than that. If anything, I would say that women are more about 'sensation.' Not to sound crass, but a perfect example of these differences can be seen more directly in the bedroom. A man wants to see everything and go crazy over the curves, the look, seeing what he's doing, and loves sexy outfits and such. You'll find far more sexy lingerie and sexy outfits available for women, for example, than you will for men. Women are more oriented toward how things 'feel.' I guarantee you that women are more into products designed to enhance physical pleasure than men. Another example of this can be seen with men and women without a sexual partner. Men buy/view more porn than women; they are far more likely to masturbate while watching porn (visual). Women, on the other hand, are far more likely to purchase/use sex toys - some type of vibrator - with or without the porn (sensation).