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Edited by FoMan123: 3/20/2016 11:19:38 AM
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Why the Fight For LGBT Rights Didn't End With Marriage Equality

I'm seeing a lot of severely misinformed people around here who think that because same-sex marriage was finally legalized, that suddenly all of the struggles of the LGBT community are suddenly over. You could not be more wrong. The five major points from the article: 1. [b]Discrimination[/b]. It is still legal in the majority of states to discriminate against gay and trans people with regards to employment. Obama made gay and trans discrimination illegal for government jobs, but most jobs are not government jobs. So yeah, we can get married now... and then we can go to work the next day and get fired by our homophobic boss. 2. [b]Adoption[/b]. Many politicians (Republicans) and a lot of the public are still against gay adoption, and while it is now legal in almost every state, Republican politicians nation-wide are actively trying to repeal those rights. 3. [b]Homelessness[/b]. Due to a combination of job discrimination and unaccepting, unloving parents, 40% of homeless youth are gay and trans. This affects trans youth even harder, and homeless trans youth are disproportionately sexually assaulted at homeless shelters. 4. [b]Trans rights[/b]. Discrimination, bullying, and hate crimes are even [i]worse[/i] against trans people than they are against gay people. 41% of trans people have attempted suicide, generally due to lack of acceptance, inability to afford (and lack of insurance coverage for) trans-related medical care, or due to homelessness caused by inability to find work because of discrimination. In addition, Republicans all over the country are continuing to attempt to roll out "bathroom bills" that would force trans people into unsafe spaces. 5. [b]HIV and AIDS[/b]. This doesn't so much have to do with equality, but it's still an important issue. HIV and AIDS disproportionally affect gay men, and this has been a major issue for the community since the 80s. Some points of my own I'd like to add: 6. [b]Panic defense[/b]. In 49 out of 50 states (California being the exception) it is still totally legal to use what's called the "gay/trans panic defense." This where the person who has committed a hate crime against a gay or trans person will claim "self defense" and "temporary insanity" in response to finding out their victim was gay or trans. This is 100% real and is used successfully to this day. 7. [b]Sex education[/b]. Sex ed is already lacking, even for straight people. "Abstinence only" sex ed has been proven to be completely ineffective, and yet it is still widely taught across the country. But even more unfortunate is that sex ed in schools is entirely heteronormative. If you're gay or trans and need to learn about the birds and the bees, heterosexual sex ed isn't going to be very useful. In order for all people, regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, to be able to enjoy [i]safe[/i] sex, sex ed must account for everyone, not just straight people. 8. [b]Representation[/b]. Gay and trans people are egregiously underrepresented in TV and film, media outlets that almost everyone goes to for entertainment and escapism. If you are straight and cisgender, you will find loads of relatable characters on screen. If your'e gay or trans, it's very hard to find relatable characters. Furthermore, trans people especially are commonly the butt of disgustingly offensive jokes in movies, usually as a way of poking fun at a straight man's sexuality. This lack of representation and horrible caricaturization teaches gay and trans youth that they are less important than others because they don't see people like themselves on TV. 9. [b]Education and acceptance[/b]. Even if all of the things previously mentioned are fixed, that doesn't mean that everyone suddenly accepts us. Making workplace discrimination illegal doesn't stop prejudiced employers from coming up with other excuses to not hire us. Making punishments harsher for hate crime perpetrators doesn't stop hate crimes from happening. Equality in the eyes of the law doesn't end oppression. The only way for the LGBT community to truly have equal standing in society, to not be deemed "lesser," is by educating people. We have to teach people that we're born this way, we don't choose it. We have to teach people that gender and sexuality are fluid, and that falling anywhere on the spectrum is valid. We have to teach people that everyone deserves basic human decency and respect,. We have to teach people to celebrate our differences rather than using them to divide us. We have to undo this archaic, traditionalist heteronormativity and cisnormativity in our culture that perpetuate hatred and oppression. My gay and trans brothers, sisters, and non-binary siblings are still dying for our cause. Every day I see a new article about a gay or trans person being attacked or killed, or committing suicide because their parents refuse to love them. [b][i]This fight is far from over.[/i][/b] Now please stop trying to convince me that my community has achieved equality. Your ignorance will be ignored.

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  • It's BLT rights.

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    • Remember the 20th century, when 18 year olds fought in WWI, WWII, and the Korean and Vietnam Wars without hesitation? Now, welcome to the 21st century, where 18 year olds need a "safe place" and "special treatment" because "words can hurt" and they should not be "misgendered." Guess what, kiddo? This world doesn't owe you JACK SHIT. You are entitled to nothing. Same goes for every other person on the planet. Just because you're "different" doesn't mean the world has to accept you.

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      • Gays = People, just not really your "normal" type of people LGBT: Politically Correct Easily Offended Insecure Idiots

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        • Heterosexual sex usually is taught in the educational sense of reproduction and staying safe when doing it. While homosexual sex is mostly for the pleasure and no real benefit like a child will be gained from it...

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          • You have reached equality. You don't get "special" treatments anymore. You're in the same boat every other American is in now. Your community is subject to criticism just as every other American is. There's no safe space anymore. Welcome to a thing called "life".

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            • Sex ed? Seriously? What would the class be? Ok kids if a man puts his penis in another man's anus he will not get pregnant. The same goes if a woman scissors another woman. Class over! O and always use condoms and dental damn.

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              • Gay rights I can agree with. Trans rights....I'm not completely against it. But "non binary" is some serious bullshit. There are only two genders, and everyone who claims to "identity" as some made-up gender is just an attention whore with crippling self-esteem issues.

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                • I feel that trans rights is next up for civil rights. In time, they will gain acceptance; like women, black people, and homosexuals. But like the previously mentioned groups of people who fought for their civil rights, and have those rights recognized by the law, prejudice and discrimination will still exist for them. How many "in the kitchen" jokes are still made at the expense of women? How long have black people endured racism? How many more homosexuals will be shamed for their sexuality? The "fight" will never end because it's human nature to discriminate based off of differences, but I hope that one day; we won't care about differences anymore.

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                • 90% of lgbt members are ignorant and biased keyboard warriors

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                  • I know about all of these, I think people should be more accepting of LGBT, but at the same time, gays shouldn't be shoving their sexuality in people's faces.

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                    • I completely agree on everything except for the Sex Ed junk. Yes I think that we should teach about safe sex rather than abstinence only, but that really has nothing to do with gay rights now does it. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that you want gay sex taught in school. This is unacceptable to me. It would make me incredibly uncomfortable to sit through a lesson about gay sex. Now, I could get behind a separate the gay students from the straight students and teach it separately sort of thing. Other than that, I think that a lot of these points can't be fixed by, "Fighting for your cause." For example, bullying cannot be prevented. Frankly, I think it's silly to even try. There's already punishments for bullying, and that's about all they can do. I think rather than trying to end bullying they should just teach the kids not to give a shit. It's not that hard. Unless it's physical abuse, in which case, fight back. Idk, that could just be because the most I've ever been bullied is when two guys tried to beat me up for something that I can't remember. Luckily I was right next to my friend and, long story short, we beat the shit out of them. Honestly those were some good times.

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                      • I don't think that gay people should be shoved aside, or discriminated. I have no problem with gay people being who they are, but I do have a problem them shoving their gayness in people's faces and expecting special treatment because they are gay, Transgender, ect.

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                        • I know where you come from. Everyone is always discriminating against me when. I tell them that I am I guy that wants to be a girl but still has guy parts and name is Jessica yet I still want people to refer to me as he or him. It's so rough. I don't know how people can't remember. [spoiler]Get your shit out of my face and then we'll leave you alone. [/spoiler]

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                          • Ugh, OP, I'm sorry on behalf of all the hateful-ass comments shown below. You make some valid points, you just made them to a group of 12 year olds who don't care about other human beings.[spoiler]Plot twist: how many of them are gonna realise they're queer by 2025?[/spoiler]

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                          • [quote] Now please stop trying to convince me that my community has achieved equality. Your ignorance will be ignored. [/quote] You sound like you need Jesus in your life.

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                          • Sounds like someone has a serious problem. It might be the person writing this post but who knows. :/ By the way, I won't try to convince you that you've achieved equality, because you've already gotten more than you deserve.

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                          • Because America is messed up and allows people to go around yelling at people "less then polite names" if you know what I mean. Also people like trump will make life a lot harder for LGBT's as once he gets rid of Mexicans and Muslims he'll turn to prosecute them. People everywhere should just accept were all the same God damn thing and stop caring about minor details about sexual preferences or the colour of your skin because we are all human and that's that.

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                          • I would give my opinion but I'm a White male who contributes to society so whatever I say will offend someone...

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                            • Well, it's Princess Anomaly Let me get my bag of popcorn here, and chillax while offtopic goes apeshit.

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                            • Aren't you banned?

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                            • Amen sister

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                            • Other than roughness, there isn't really a problem as far as SSE goes. It's "wear a condom, suffer the consequences, or don't at all." They cover male protection in the male course, and female protection in the female course. Your point on the SSE is simply invalid, as they only use Heterosex as an example. A guy can't get a guy pregnant. A girl can't get a girl pregnant. So if the homosexuals are only concerned about STDs, why even bother using homosex as an example, when it is already covered in the heterosex example?

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                              • This thread is now about starwars Discuss.

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                                • Anarchy

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                                • Let it go bro...everyone is moving on

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                                • Let it go bro...everyone is moving on

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