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Edited by DarkKnightBoss: 1/28/2016 2:35:50 AM
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Girls, need your help

I like this girl who recently told me she has feelings for me. We've known each other for three years and I've told her before that I have feelings for her. She has a boyfriend now who abuses her (physically and verbally)- i know because he did in front of me- he deals drugs and she is still dating him, she thinks of me as a bro and she says its complicated but she has feelings for me. What do I do, she loves her boyfriend but she wants to get over him, I've asked her out and she said she thinks of me as a brother, but she has feelings for me. What should I do, she knows her boyfriends a JACKASS to her but she loves him. She even said she feels jealous when I got a girlfriend, what do I do I've tried to tell her to go to the police or a hotline for help but she said she doesn't want him in trouble, and I can't do anything because he is 30 times bigger than me He kinda hates me but idc, him and I got in a verbal arguement where I asked him that if he even cares about her and he said only sometimes Please I need real advice here Edit: thanks everyone, just talked to her she said she is slowly getting over him but still kinda loves him

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  • Edited by Some Black Guy: 1/28/2016 5:03:51 AM
    1. Call the police on him. Seriously. Don't just stand by why he abuses her, if you know. If you feel as if there isn't any evidence at the time, if there is ANY sign of abuse the next time you see her, call the police right then and there. 2. Some men and women in abusive relationships ARE VERY AFRAID of leaving their partners, because they fear for their lives, and don't want to get hurt. Others are so in love, they don't care, and some are embarrassed about telling someone. 3. Do your best to get her out of that hell hole and just be there for her. Don't even worry about dating her right off the back. She is mentally and physically hurt, so it'll be a while to fix all of that pain.

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