Lt " Look I can't control what chooses to show itself to me,but I can choose to ignore it. Which I always have done,until I was getting 4 or 5 of these a year just about you and your family.Thats too many to ignore,so I have gradually worked my way over here to see if I can't find out why? unfortunately all I have are vague suppositions at the moment. And yet despite all that who should seek me out of his own volition? I'll tell you this now Lance I don't do coincidences," [i] then she grins[/i]" Although for you I would be willing to make an exception."