Hey dano welcome to the club. the best way to get you light up is nighfalls, raiding, and trials. Nightfall are dropping gear up to 310, NM raid drops gear up to 310, HM raid drops gear up to 320 (once you hit 302-305 you can run HM with other of equal or greater light), and trials drops gear up 320 (you just have to play trials and get the bounties done if you are not much of a pvp player). join the groupme for general chat and for xbox lfg if you have not already. there you will also find member to run stuff with. just let us know what you are looking to do and when you are able to do it, and most of the time you will find some DRPers to help. feel free to message me anytime for anything you need in the world of destiny. lastly just add some of the xbox clan members to you friends list and make them favorites so you see when they get online. it was a huge help to myself. now i have tons of options for friends to play destiny with. Good luck guardian