I couldn't agree more. Yes! I do have ToM but I'm not going to look down on people just because they don't. It's my opinion that elitism doesn't belong anywhere. And in the end, 9 times out of 10, the person making that comment is only doing so because, just like you hinted at, their only achievements are in games. They realise that this is sad depressing so try and bring people without it down to their level to hide their own flaws and make themselves feel better. "What? You don't have malice?? Oh man you must have a pretty sad life get gud skrub". When the reality is usually the exact opposite. Just like you said. Get some fresh air. Get some sun on your skin and the one I like the most stop being c*nts