I've been being flirty with this girl from school, we went on a couple of dates, and now she's totally obsessed with me. I don't really like her very much but I don't know how to let her down
She just texted this to me:
[spoiler]Dear John,
I'm so glad that I found such a great guy like you. I don't even know if I deserve you. I like you so much that I'm scared that I might become selfish, haha. You're so sweet, cheesy(corny), understanding, kind, and just overall amazing. I'm truly amazed how I got the chance to meet you and have such a heart warming relationship with you. That you so much for understanding even though you might not get the situation. You are honestly perfect even you're flaws are perfect. (even though I doubt you have any flaws) . You make me smile when I'm feeling down and give me butterflies in my stomach when you give me hugs and when you gave me a kiss on the top of my head. I smile when I think about you and feel stupidly retarded when people ask me why I'm smiling. I feel pathetic when I'm crying because I'm scared of losing someone I care about. I'll always be there for you when you need someone I promise. You can be the hero and I'll be your sidekick. I'm sorry for being so stupid sometimes. But to be honest I'm scared to date you because dating me can be a handful, and I'm scared that I might not be the person you thought I was and not want me anymore. I'm pathetic and such a cry baby. I like you a lot. I hope you do too. I miss you when I can't see your face. And I'm sorry for getting you into trouble. I don't want you to get hurt. I just wanted to tell you this. Well I have to shower bye. [/spoiler]
[b]UPDATE[/b]: broke up with her via text. The deed is done
[b]UPDATE 2[/b]: she's called me three times today
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One word of advise. Run
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Tell her to take it slow As a cruel guy I would pretend to mistake her for another gf through text
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Op is cabbage
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Edited by Doserino: 11/12/2015 1:10:13 PMawww that's adorable ;~;
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Good for you.
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who wouldn't be obsessed over you?
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Damn bro Damn
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Just roll with it
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Well she seems like a great sex friend! ;)
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You cant say no. She'll turn into a Yandere and murder your ass!
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Edited by Nebulrike: 11/12/2015 12:44:43 PMWelp She used the pity against you Now you must stay with her Or you're -blam!-ed
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Stage 5 clinger
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... Yea your screwed...
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I hate it when that happens!
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Edited by chris_wonder: 11/12/2015 11:55:06 AMNuke her from orbit. She is one of those crazy ones. Just run very very fast
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[quote]I'm scared to date you because dating me can be a [i]handful[/i], and I'm scared that I might not be the person you [i]thought[/i] I was and not want me anymore.[/quote] The person you [i]thought[/i] she was? Let's dig deeper and see what we can find... [i]Handful[/i], hmmm what could it mean... [spoiler]She actually has a dick and wants you to give her(him?) a [i]hand[/i]job[/spoiler]
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Edited by TechyWizard: 11/12/2015 11:02:03 AMEh, I'd say just go face to face and say "it's not you it's me." And finish it from there.
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That's pretty much what happened to me
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If you don't like her..... Run!!!
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I don't think it's a good idea to let her down. Seriously, she sent a freakin' letter through message.
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Op es lechuga
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She likes you and she's being honest about it, now do her and the world a favour and be honest back. If your not that into her then for - blam-sake cut her loose so she can get on with her life and stop massaging your ego. Good luck by the way.
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Edited by Legend To None: 11/12/2015 9:25:56 AMYee i dont think shes obsessed. She just really likes you. Now if she cuts to you then you have a problem. But if you dont like her then nothing i can help with. Just make sure you arent scared of commitment.
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That's not being obsessed, in fact all she's trying to say is that she likes you. No need to be disrespectful and post her personal text to you on the Internet. It probably means a lot to her and you're just calling her "obsessed"
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She's probably just a Yandere
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Decide how much you don't like her then based on the situation decide whether to dump her or not