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Why can't we all just be "Gamers"?
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  • Because when a girl is gaming people treat her differently and she has actual struggles in how she's viewed by other gamers. There would be just hammers if people would treat women like they were any other gamer.

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  • Sorry? Female gamer here and I don't feel that way. Solid do NOT.

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  • It doesn't matter how you feel because others still view you differently. When I play I don't feel like a girl gamer, just a gamer, but when I'm signaled out for being a girl that's what I am, not one of the others but being put apart from them because of my gender. I want to just be a gamer but I don't get to be treated like a gamer because of my gender. Some people will treat you just like any other gamer but as long as some people don't if you ever talk openly on a mic in a multyplayer or join a party with some randoms and maybe a couple of your friends you're likely to be the girl gamer to them and they aren't guaranteed to treat you the same.

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  • Because the moment a girl's voice comes through the headset guy gamers tend to act like compete idiots. I get it if a girl gamer is ranting on and on but I tend to see a lot of immediate childish reactions to it. Honestly, I'm guessing it's because a lot of gamers aren't used to having a normal conversation with a girl IRL.

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  • Who is the one stereotyping now? Sheesh. - chick gamer

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  • Please dont perpetuate the stereotype that gamers are poorly adjusted social idiots who stammer when girls are around. That just simply isnt true. As a gamer you should know better.

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  • [quote]Please dont perpetuate the stereotype that gamers are poorly adjusted social idiots who stammer when girls are around. That just simply isnt true. As a gamer you should know better.[/quote] If a gamer acts like what you described than what you described is exactly what they are. Stereotypes are true for a reason.

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  • In logic, stereotypes are actually viewed as a form of fallacy, but we'll save that conversation for another time. I believe what the poster meant to say, more concisely, is that: you cannot paint all male gamers with the same brush.

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  • [quote]In logic, stereotypes are actually viewed as a form of fallacy[/quote] I don't know that to be true. [quote]you cannot paint all male gamers with the same brush.[/quote] This I completely agree with.

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  • [quote]Please dont perpetuate the stereotype that gamers are poorly adjusted social idiots who stammer when girls are around. That just simply isnt true. As a gamer you should know better.[/quote] thank you jesus christ

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  • As a gamer all I see on a daily basis when girls get into the game is harassment from immature little losers so I'm sorry that the stereotype, for the most part, is true.

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  • Completely agree!

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  • Edited by FightinFinn 2-7: 10/21/2015 5:38:43 PM
    Case and point! And if anyone is butthurt by this, go watch gabriel iglesias's (I think I spelled that right) racist gift basket. Link included [url=http://www.bungie.net]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xg_CS0KoSA[/url] However I don't understand why these little turds trash women that play games. It is childish!

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  • Good point. I really dont care who I play with as long as they know how to play the game and if they dont know how, they listen to advice and help. I have been playing Destiny since launch and I have played with about 3 girls in that time. One of them is the GF of a clan mate and is cool as a cucumber and she is always welcome in my fireteam. One of them was a 16 year old who knew everything about not just Destiny, but life as well. She spent the first 20 minutes of the mission complaining about her personal life and bad mouthing and generalizing all men as stupid, liars and dogs. That went on until I ripped her a new vagina (figuratively) and shut her arrogant ass down. Im a damn grown up and I dont have ANY time in my life to put up with some adolescent know it all telling me how I should be in my marriage. Same goes for dudes. I will rip them a new vagina as well if they need it.

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  • Edited by Sparlywag: 10/21/2015 3:18:46 PM
    Stereotypes dont just come out of nowhere. They exist for a reason.

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  • True. Shit.

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  • I'm not saying stereo types are good by any means. But it's our own fault if we allow ourselves to fall into a stereotype. It's up to the individual to make sure they cannot be categorized that way.

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  • Well said. Bottom line: Dont start nuttin, wont be nuttin!

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