I don't get why y'all just don't fend these guys off. There are some great tools to help you do that. -Mute button -Report button -The option to tell them to -blam!- off Those are the only three things you need to do. Tell a guy to go -blam!- himself, if he persists mute him, and if he does even more report him. I'm sure there are also plenty of guys who don't give a shit if you're a female gamer, too. Try adding some of those people and chilling with them.