I hear you. I found out the hard way advertising myself on LFG that I have malice, spindle, and SS, and I got a request from one of the shittiest groups I have ever played with. It's hard to figure out how to advertise yourself in order to get into a decent group. I don't care what weapons you have, but DO NOT come into the raid with only a sword as your heavy. That is my issue. Other than that as long as people are competent it's all good.