Now i cant speak for all incidents here but this is one i witnessed. We have this guy who can be an asshole at times, then we go to raid and this girl joins in, she doesnt know anyone but one of my friends. So we proceed to raid and one of my friends is being an asshole to everyone (in good fun, he wasnt trying to hurt anyone were just joking around) but the girl didnt know and she took it all personally and left. We messaged her explaining and my friend apologized but i think its important to note the difference between guys who are mean to girls, and guys who are assholes to everyone.