I didn't say you did. My original comment implies that there is no such thing as the concept of "growing up" because there is no prerequisite to achieve "growing up." You either know something or you don't. You directed your comment at the OP, saying he should grow up, but at what point should he ever have to do so? And as you can see from Tal's comment: [quote]"Growing up" doesn't entail silently enduring bigotry; and just because you perceive a thing to "happen everywhere", doesn't make that thing acceptable.[/quote] Which makes your comment all the more moot.