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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • Shut up, Meg

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  • You're a -blam!-ing idiot

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  • Wait wait wait, did you just write, esq. after your name? You've got to be ******* kidding me..........

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  • Damn this dude is thirsty - go out and meet some real women bro, your heroism and noble comments are not going to get your d wet In a video game forum

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    • This is pathetic. Speak for yourself, they deserve no special treatment.

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    • The whitest of Knights

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      • You may have lost your mind. Dr's orders: Stop playing destiny for 7 days. No contact with destiny forums. No reading ANY articles about destiny Go to the gym. After the gym get your lonely ass out and have a beer and meet a real life woman. You would be shocked at how............human they are! It's crazy. *I admit, i saw the part where the guy tells DeeJ to suck his balls or something. I wasn't overly shocked. Ok, watched a bit more, dude you're blasted out of your mind. Really. I think you are the guy who's always "friends" with girls that you like? Am i gettin warm? Follow my advice above. Reality time. God forbid you are married cause i got bad news buddy, she's cheating on you.

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      • I think like typical people nowadays people are making a way bigger deal of something than it really is... Don't make mountains out of molehills

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        • Well I gotta say the idiots who were in there were probably fatasses with no life playin this game 24-7 nonstop around the clock out thousands of hours in this game are just asshats but if they wanna be little shits go ahead just don't do it behind a computer screen [spoiler]this isn't a support post to the idiots I just felt that I needed to say this[/spoiler]

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        • Forgot #satire

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        • Dude just stfu. Such a ass kisser it's sickening. Not supporting sexism is all good but you're just being a fuking idiot.

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        • You should've stuck with just two posts.

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        • Yay, someone who doesn't cry when thinking about them.

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        • so they deserve apology but if your not in their clan your tough out of luck? hows that fair ... i get it... they were extremely visible being on a stream and all

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        • Thank you.

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        • Abortion is wrong.

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        • People throw around the word hate too often. Hate takes years of knowing a person intimately. What people usually feel for eachother is a mild dislike.

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        • Edited by KevINCOGNITO82: 7/31/2015 4:11:13 AM
          I completely agree that this type of behavior towards women in gaming is beyond unacceptable. Women any where for that matter should not be subject to any of the things that were said to them during the stream or anytime in life actually. As much as I think Wish You Luck is the biggest unusable tool with a neard in the world, ( I literally cannot stand this societal reject who must have been picked on in school), My Name is Byf is spreading misinformation and really dramatizing what was said to DEEJ not DAMES. He also is quoting what was said completely wrong. Luck said "I only have one thing to say about the bounties......Deej, suck my balls!" And then bounced from fireteam. He clearly says Deej, and there are numerous videos of how it went down. Luck even has it on his own page. So idk why Byf wouldn't take the few seconds it takes to find the video and confirm what was said, rather than taking misconstrued heresay he heard or read somewhere and running with it. Luck does a great job of making himself look like a complete asshat, he doesn't need help from Byf. Whom has now made himself look like a complete asshat himself by not covering facts and slandering Luck to boost his own brand value. That is douchebaggery as well. Luck already is a douchebag, there isn't a doubt about it. Byf doesn't need to be one either by making shit up when there's clear video and audio evidence of what Luck said. Byf got it twisted.

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          • Check the corresponding box below: ☑ Rekt ☐ Not Rekt

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          • I have mixed feelings about your post. While what you say is obviously true and righteous, you being the one to say it makes me think you are a pompous douche. You can't apologize for someone else. They were shitty human beings, but leave it alone. You can't change the world with a forum post.

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          • Edited by Negan Lyons: 7/31/2015 3:48:49 AM
            Yay. A white knight sycophantic virgin to mute!

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          • I normally would stay silent on this but this is so stupid. I would have done the same thing a chance to tbag and show the developers what they did and their idea of balance then tell him to suck my nutz ? gladly quit being white nights you still ain't getting any vag . put your tampons in and move on with your life -shady

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          • I watched the whole video. Holy crap, can you say 'hypocrite' and 'double standard?' "The Destiny community should be a place of acceptance." "Ostracise all the sexists." "Shame the people who commented." Now, this dude seems like a social justice warrior, and most likely against slut shaming. So, slut shaming is wrong but jerk shaming is okay? I agree that these sort of things shouldn't happen, but don't be a hypocrite in your own argument.

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            • People like to throw that "girl" in front of gamer like it's a -blam!-ing unicorn or something. Women can fight their own battles. They don't need to be highlighted. but a side from sometimes getting the odd attention seeker the issue should be some immature people were being pricks to some gamers in Destiny. Sex has nothing to do with how shitty some parts of this community and other online communities can get.

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            • You can see a man shoot himself in the head with a flare gun or someone taking a dump in a cup and eating it like a nice milk shake. So what I'm getting at is that this is the internet, you can try and bring it under your moral authority but as the examples entail it's the internet, disgusting shit is always happening, literally :)

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            • When you put yourself out there, you know what your susceptible to. It doesn't matter if your a girl or guy gamer. This shouldn't even be made a big deal. There will always be ppl out there like that. So instead of throwing a pity party why not just brush it off and sweep it under the rug. Who cares?!

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