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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • He Didn't say anything Towards the Dames but that Doesn't Justify what he did. Completely agree with Byf about the Sexism

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  • If Bungie doesn't do something about this then all my respect for the company will be lost.

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  • It's funny because I bet most of these people are just saying stuff like that to be "cool" and get attention. Then they walk past girls when they go back to middle school and get nervous and wish they could talk to them. Just immature idiots

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  • Well said

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  • How can anyone jump on these females bandwagon about sexism is beyond me. A clan of females that does not allow males=sexist. I in no way agree with what these dickheads did to those ladies. But for the love of god they are fully aware of how this community is. Attention seeking panty twisters that have watched to many YouTube videos of trolling. SMDH

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    • Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhutthe-blam!-up

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    • I feel as though this is an appropriate thread in which to share this article concerning a recent study. Enjoy http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-intersect/wp/2015/07/20/men-who-harass-women-online-are-quite-literally-losers-new-study-finds/

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    • Some people are assholes

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    • Incoming white knights!! Protecting people that don't care about them You really wanna make a difference, don't do it online. I bet my soul after you get off the internet you won't even give theses "gamer girls" a second thought

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      • What exactly are you apologizing for? I'm not trying to be a dick I'm actually confused like are you just saying sorry this happened or something? Or do you mean sorry as in you're part of the problem?

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        • Reply so I can watch later?

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          • OP attacks sexism directed toward a group defined by sexism. lol

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          • Agreed who's cares if your male or female we're all gamers at the end of the day.

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          • Edited by The GR8 Autismo: 7/30/2015 8:51:31 PM
            Your armor so shiny mr knight. At least you care about rights as whole on the internet you know, while innocent people are getting killed in police custody, we got mr knight here; fighting the good fight.

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            • Edited by Eclipse: 7/30/2015 9:22:28 PM
              Why are you being racist against little boys who get picked on? Go make a thread apologizing for the little squealing kids that get bullied. While you're at it, make another thread about black people not being able to swim. And then make one for Asian people that aren't good anything even though it's in their blood to be the best at everything, including DDR. You seem like a super internet hero who has been given a computer and keyboard for the sole purpose of being the internet police and being the protector of feelings everywhere. I love these pointless threads by some random individual trying to be "mature and wise" and get attention.

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            • The irony when the dames of destiny make a clan against sexism by using sexism..

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              • The only difference I would make to their clan would be instead of "Female Exclusive" it could be both men and women, as long as BOTH are respectable to each other. In my opinion, female exclusive makes it seems like every male is bad and only females can protect females.

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                • Who cares, it's no different than calling other male players fags, homo's, cocksuckers etc. it's a part of gaming. People talk trash

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                  Yesterday is the kinda shit that brings about bad views of the destiny community, regardless of sexism, the pure immaturity was ridiculous. This is why we cant have nice things.

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                • These people should be banned plain and simple. Not necessarily just from Bungie. They should have xbox live/PSN revoked. Freedom of speech does NOT protect them in this case. Freedom of speech gives you the right to have a thought and share it. It does not give you the right to attack someone else you can refer to this wiki link for any of the disgusting people out there that have to have it spelled out for them. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_speech_in_the_United_States

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                  • Edited by CleverInvective: 7/30/2015 8:55:22 PM
                    What a load of crap. Get off your b u l l s h i t high horse. You read like a guy trying to score an internet girlfriend from all this.

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                    • Edited by BL4DE RUNNER UK: 7/30/2015 9:09:25 PM
                      The guy in the video does not speak for all the community. Him saying these people are 'cast out' or 'ostracised' thats not up to him. I don't like Racism, Sexism, all the isms', homophobia the list goes on. But here's the thing; Hating someone because of their views, no matter how abhorrent you find those views, Is exactly the same as being racist. Your hating a group of people because of the way they conduct themselves. YOU don't like what they say. It's not up to YOU to police the internet. I agree that those people were probably dicks, it doesn't make them sexist in particular. Maybe some were young teens; They don't yet know the impact of words. Maybe some were uneducated, again not seeing how it could hurt Dames of Destiny. I don't know, What i do know is life is not black and white. It's shades of grey and full of perceptions and interpretations. I acknowledge they are dicks for what they did. People like that i don't tend to have in my social circle, virtual or physical. These people will learn that it's not acceptable as they grow and mature through life. If they don't, So what? We don't have a perfect, clinical, sterile world. Finally, coming out and defending Dames of Destiny? Good job! Charge in to the rescue of those fragile, delicate females. How sexist is that i wonder?

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