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7/30/2015 8:19:50 PM
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An Open Letter to the Dames of Destiny: I Am Sorry.

Dear Dames of Destiny, While I do not normally watch the Destiny Bungie Bounty streams, it recently came to my attention through the My name is Byf video (which I have included in this post for anyone who happens to be curious), that your part in the Bungie Bounty was met with almost constant sexist and discriminatory remarks. Normally, I don't make threads of my own, only reserving that sort of thing for what I consider important, and this is the third thread I've made on the Bungie forums, period. As such, I feel a few things need to be said. First, to the Destiny Community: It comes as no surprise to me that there is still a hateful attitude towards women in gaming, but what [i]did[/i] come as a shock was the fact that people were willing to show that hate and discrimination so publicly, without any apparent shame for it. I realize that the Internet and Online Gaming, in and of themselves, promote anonymity, and in turn that gives people the power to say whatever it is they wish. That power is often coupled with complete irresponsibility and total unaccountability. That is no excuse, and is unacceptable. The fact that I have to type this in the first place disappoints and sickens me, but I suppose it has to be reiterated: In a video game, the gender of the player [u]does not matter.[/u] It should [u]never[/u] matter. Neither should race or place of birth. Discrimination as a whole is wrong, and should never be promoted. As such, anyone who sees what happened to the Dames of Destiny, and approves? You are not a part of [i]my[/i] Destiny Community, and I want nothing to do with you. If I seem like I'm parroting Byf's video and the points he happens to be making, it's simply because the point deserves to be hammered home. Second, to the Dames of Destiny themselves: For those of you who read this, and I sincerely hope you do, I want to say on behalf of my part of the Destiny Community that I am truly sorry that you had to see, experience, and have to endure that kind of utter bullshit. And I am sorry that over the past decade, it hasn't seemed to have gotten noticeably better. I hope that from this point forward, you have to deal with less and less discriminating assholes while you play online, regardless of whether or not it happens to be Destiny. And I hope that, despite everything that happened during the Bungie Bounty stream, it does not deter you from staying strong as a part of this community. [i]Sincerely, Texas Joker 52, esq.[/i]

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  • I LOVE PETRA

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  • I just wanna know where they manage to fit a console and a tv on their kitchen counters? How much did their bfs spend on their tvs?

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  • Edited by Ultron: 7/30/2015 10:56:13 PM
    Must had been playing on Xbox. [spoiler]trigger fingers turn to Twitter fingers. You getting body by a singing Ni** I am not the type of N*** that will type to Ni***. And shout out to my boss bit**** wife_ing nig**![/spoiler]

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    • While I agree with this, the problem is that the Bungie Bounty was on Xbox. Let me repeat that again, [u][i][b]Xbox[/b][/i][/u]

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      • Disgusting what happened, but alas, we are adding more fuel to the fire. I played GW2 for years in a clan with 75% women and never saw this kind of behavior. No one just wants to be a big happy family and get along? Shame.

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      • Who gives a shit? Some guys are dicks and everyone else apologizes for them but no one ever apologized for my ex girlfriends and they were way worse than some 12 year old trolls on the forums

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        • you know i feel sorry for them but im not surprised. the game is garbage and of course the community in the game will be garbage and stupid because only idiots would like playing a game with lag since day one (like call of duty), obvious cut content, bad open world mechanics, bad weapon balancing (almost just nerfs) and after they tell us the nerf they explain that "its because its not the way they intended us to play the game".... then their is the fact that their is absolutely no interesting story IN THE GAME (lore is out of the game and not everyone reads it), full of glitches and obviously unfinished game mechanics such as bullet physics and gravity in general, and full of invisible walls to keep the player on the little sidewalk bungie made so you cant step into the grass on the side, and obvious paid advertising by activation to youtubers and streamers. people just come to terms that the game is trash and so are the people that love this game.

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          • Edited by Swiftlock: 7/30/2015 10:45:12 PM
            Cute, but futile. On the bright side, the drama might spiral out of control and we'll end up with our own remix of Gamergate. That'll be interesting to see.

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            • Sad that this happened, when did gaming come to be like this? Real gamers have spent years trying to promote games to get that 'nerdy, geek, sad' label removed from us, gaming in general is starting to become more widely acceptable and popular. All these people do is give us a bad name and put people others off from playing. I hope they get banned by bungie, i don't care whether your a girl or a guy, straight or gay, freakishly tall or strangely small. WE ARE ALL GAMERS AND WE ARE A COMMUNITY PLEASE GROW UP AND START ACTING LIKE IT.

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            • I didn't see the chat on the stream, but hearing about those comments made me think just how pathetic some people really are. It really says something for the world, when players feel the need to act like scum to players of opposite sex/younger age/different race, or EVEN a playstyle. It's a worldwide online game. Everyone has a right to play it. End of. Vote ban for offenders.

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            • Edited by run: 7/30/2015 10:42:19 PM
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              Don't think the dames are taking it too hard like some of us think they are...

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              • Good post

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              • What is going on?

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              • Thank you for baiting all the trolls. It's easier to mute them now.

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                • You, I like you.

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                • Simple bungle needs to make an example out of these sexist morons

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                • This is the reason why an all girl's clan actually exists. I would love to join Dames of Destiny, simply because guys i play with will either ignore my directions because i am a girl or they will try to shut me down at every level. Have you ever spoken in a room full of people and have them all ignore you and purposely restate the same questions but direct it at a male gamer? Yeah, there needs to be an all girl's crew

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                  • (>'.')> <('.'<) (^'.'^) <('.')> (v'.'v) ^('.')> <('.')^ (v'.')> <('.'v) ( '.') [spoiler]You need a medal[/spoiler]

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                  • What a fcking douche

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                  • Honestly if a comment on a GAMING FORUM affects you this much you got other more important problems to think about.

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                  • Edited by OuroborosWrath: 7/30/2015 10:29:00 PM
                    When I was like 10 I was amazing at bowling cause I was in a league because I hadn't learned to snowboard yet. I was there with my mom because I was practicing and there was a group of attractive ladies probably around age 20-30 who sucked at bowling. They were obviously doing it as a bonding experience and didn't care about score. They saw me bowling good and asked me to show them how to bowl. I did and they got better. End of story. I just wish I wasn't 10 at the time LOL I just thought of that when you mentioned bowling in the video.

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                  • What if this was the opposite way around Men can't play games How will they react towards this then they will fell it That's how this is working. These "people" did this to a few people of Dames of Destiny and made discrimination quotes and didn't care and did it for fun. The people who did this should get some way to get banned EX- All characters are deleted and cannot be leveled up and will be banned

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                  • I have nothing against female gamers but to say that we should treat "Dames" with respect and kindness is asking a little to much there gamers like us who enjoi a good competition and no matter what people are gonna talk trash to each other and make you feel like shit sometimes but that's just people being people it's called taunting why should guy gamers be more nice to female gamers they want equality well unfortunately being assholes to each other mid game regardless of gender is equality

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                    • The earth is a terrible place, white knight. Get over it. Games are competitive and bring out the worst of people. Also, tl;dr.

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                    • Sounds like you guys need to join my clan. Free of persecution! https://www.bungie.net/en/Clan/Detail/1147785

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                    • Damn straight but your posting this to the community that said all those things so you are gonna see people defend it and make fun of you, but I agree with you

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